Often, when people hear bondage, their mind all of a sudden jumps to chains, whips, paddles, canes, sharp things, pain, etc. BDSM can contain bondage, but bondage does not necessarily lead to BDSM. I particularly want to point out that last sentence: Bondage itself does not contain sadomasochism. Now, I’ll be the first to admit that Wikipedia is not an excellent source of reliable information, but I believe this is a pretty apt description. Bondage itself does not contain sadomasochism. So then, what do we do with a topic like bondage? Well, let’s define it first: What is bondageīondage is the tying, binding, or restraining of a person for the sexual,aesthetic, and/or psychological pleasure of the parties involved. Rope, cuffs, bondage tape, self-adhesive bandages, or other restraints may be used for this purpose.
Now, I know these verses are not specifically about sex, but again, I believe the underlying principles are still in effect. – 1 Thessalonians 5:11Įverything we do should be to encourage, build up, each other, never to bring each other down. Therefore encourage (admonish, exhort) one another and edify (strengthen and build up) one another, just as you are doing. – Proverbs 31:12Įverything should be done in love and respect, no harm involved. She comforts, encourages, and does him only good as long as there is life within her. Husbands, love your wives, as Christ loved the church and gave Himself up for her – Ephesians 5:25 I think we have some basic rules we can all agree to: Now, most people take this to mean that outside of the specific prohibitions in the bible, and any obvious extrapolations of said prohibitions, everything is fair game. And thus let the marriage bed be undefiled (kept undishonored) for God will judge and punish the unchaste and adulterous. Let marriage be held in honor (esteemed worthy, precious, of great price, and especially dear) in all things. There are prohibitions against things like bestiality and incest, against adultery, impure thoughts and practices, but what about what happens in a marriage bed between mutually consenting adults? What does the Bible say I like to pull Bible passages when I can, but the Bible is pretty silent on most sexual practices. But what about these genuine wives who have a real desire, not brought about by some piece of fiction, to try this? I’ve been that husband who sat there and thought, “ Is this OK“, “ What do I do?“, “ How do I start?” I am not writing about that book! There are a billion reasons why you shouldn’t read it, go read Pulling Back The Shades if you want more info. Note: I’ve been seeing these WAY before 50 Shades of Grey was even a concept. I’ve seen this question in a few places where all of a sudden a wife lets out that she wants her husband to tie her up.
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